Do you do slave training, humiliation domination, torture scenes, or leather-man fantasy play?
No, I donít. I can help you explore the light side of BDSM
but any experience close to those in the question is probably best handled by
someone whose focus is in that area. If you need that type of experience, Iím
happy to refer you to other BDSM pros that I know but Iím not comfortable
offering that type work professionally. My work is about getting you connected
with your body, not having power over you or inflicting pain.
Does this experience mean that I'm gay?
No, this experience doesn't make you anything. You choose
the labels that you put on yourself or you choose not to be labeled. Labels
limit us by their definition of us. To me, being open to all the sources of
pleasure that the Universe has to offer us is the ideal state to be in. Who you
relate to sexually has to do with your sexual orientation, not how you receive
pleasure or from whom. Pleasure is an energy and as such has no gender. Pleasure is
determined by how you interpret a stimulus, not about the person creating the
stimuli. In this work there is either pleasure or not. It has nothing to do
with your sexual identity.
Will I have an ejaculation during the session?
That really depends upon the session, the experience you
seek and your desires. For the most part impact play is not about cuming, itís
about noticing the sensations that arise within the body. Some guys find these
sensations pleasurable and like to add cock stimulation in with them. I can
eroticize any experience in my dungeon or leave it out completely. I find that
the experience is intense enough that an orgasm is almost anticlimactic.
However, I also know how healing it is for the body to experience an orgasm
because of the energy that it sends through your system so ending a session
with one is a great idea (and of course fun). We will of course discuss this
more when you schedule a session.
Do I need to do an douche beforehand?
No unless you want to include assplay as part of your
session. Typically taking a bowel movement before you arrive for the session is
sufficient for our work. However the best way to be able to relax and feel
confident that you're as clean as you would like is to do a shallow enema. I
have kits available if you'd like to purchase one to use before we begin your
session. They're 10 dollars. I am happy to keep it at my studio for you if
you'd like or you can take it with you. Details for doing an douche and options for doing that in my studio before your session can be found
I've never let a guy touch me erotically before; what if I'm too nervous?
I've worked with many guys in this situation and have had no
problems so far. Ultimately this is about you and allowing your body to be
stimulated. Your pleasure is not dependent upon the gender of the person doing
the stimulating. We'll spend some time chatting before your session begins and
in that discussion, I'll find out a bit more about you and will explain
everything that will happen during the session before we begin. I am a very
calm, grounded, easy-going and gentle person and many have found that just by
being in my presence they tend to calm down very quickly. If we were engaging
in some sort of romantic connection then my gender would be more of an issue
for you. Since this is about you and your body, my gender is not a factor, only
your thoughts are. Change your thoughts and you'll change your life.
Can I touch you?
Yes, you are welcome to touch me but that's not the focus of
our time together. This experience is about you and your body. If you choose to
touch me you'll find that I won't stop the process to encourage that, but
rather I'll just continue working. This has nothing to do with you and so
please don't be offended. When you begin touching me, your focus shifts to me
and away from you. Many guys say that bringing pleasure to their partner is how
they get pleasure. I get that because that is the base of my work, but this
experience is about you allowing yourself to just absorb layer upon layer of sensation
without sending that energy back to me. Yes, I know that can be a challenge but
that's what this work is about. This session is about you focusing fully on
your body not mine. (That's why you pay me.)
Is this your full time job?
Yes. I've been in full-time practice since November of 2005.
I love this work and am honored to be able to sustain myself with it. I have an amazing work studio where I'll be working on you. I do not live there. There is a picture of my dungeon and studio on
the "Tools" page of my site.
Are you a cop?
No. With all the buzz
about police stings and erotic workers, this is an understandable fear that
many guys have. Primarily those stings are targeted toward female workers and
allegedly for their safety. I can assure you that the police do not go to the
trouble to make a website as thorough as mine, nor take the time to respond to
emails or advertise the way I do. As you can see from my
page (on my Sacred Intimate site), my clients know me and trust me. If you
doubt me at all, please select any testimonial that you'd like from the
testimonial page and I can get you in touch via email with its author to
confirm what I say.
Do you live in the space where I'll be going? Is it safe? Is the neighborhood safe?
I have a commercial space located in an old factory in the SoDo District immediately south of downtown Seattle. The building has been renovated and converted into a variety of unique commercial and residental spaces.
My work space is completely self-contained and separate
from any other studio. The work studio contains dungeon
and a full bath and has its own private entry.
The area is
very clean and safe at all hours however because it is located in an industrial neighborhood, it is ofter very quiet and seemingly deserted at night. That can make it feel more frightening than it is especially if you are walking to the light rail station. The building that my space is in is a mixed use building. There are commecial spaces, live-work spaces and residental only spaces. We've had no reports of crimes.
Will I pass another client on my way in or out?
It is highly doubtful. I schedule sessions an hour apart to
avoid this overlap of appointments...and that is also why I ask you not to show up early for your appointment.
Do you cum during the session?
Typically I do not cum during a session. I am
multi-orgasmic. This means that I can have many dry orgasms without ejaculating
and I do that many times throughout a day. Like most guys who are past their
20s, once I ejaculate I'm ready for a break. If I cum, that makes it
challenging for me to do this work for the rest of the day. If you do choose to
touch me, all I ask that you please not touch me with the intent to try and
make me cum. Your pleasure is not dependent upon my orgasm in this setting.
Can I take a shower afterwards?
can...or we can take one together during your session. I love playing in the
shower. A bath is also an option. I'm happy to bathe you because I find that very
What about disease?
Any sexual/sensual encounter carries with it a certain risk
of disease. This one is no different but because of the format of the session,
sexual contact is not a primary focus of the session. However, I get tested for
the whole battery of STDs quarterly just as a precautionary action. I value my
health and want to ensure that I'm not passing anything along to my clients. I
make every effort possible to ensure that you don't leave with anything that
you didn't come in with. I am currently HIV negative and on the PReP regimine to prevent HIV. We can live life from a place of fear where we never
have any intimate contact or we can weigh our risks, take the necessary
precautions and explore our sexuality. This, as with all intimate contact, is
about trust. The experiences that are typically a part of my sessions carry a
very low risk for you. Click HERE to see my latest test results.
Do you work with women or male/female couples?
The majority of my
intimate contact has been with men. Since I am a male, the past experiences and
knowledge of my body are what make me so good at this work. I know firsthand
what the things I do to the male body feel like. I have been fortunate enough
to have a few women in the past that have helped me to understand the workings
of the female body better. While I am happy to work with women as a part of a couples
session, I prefer to work primarily with men. This experience is about helping
guys learn about their bodies. I feel comfortable doing this because of my
knowledge and prefer to leave working with females to those who know the female
body best. I know women who work with women doing this type of work and am
happy to give you referrals to them if you happen to be female.
Where do you get the equipment and toys in your space?
The majority of my
fun toys and kinky gear comes from Fort Troff. They are a great company with exceptional customer service. Click on the banner below and check out their wide selection of fun, kinky toys and gear.
I still have more questions, how do I get them answered?
Drop me a line with any questions that you have. I am always
happy to answer questions for you to help you feel more comfortable with the
experience. Please email me at Michael@MaleEroticDungeon.com. I'll
get back with you as quickly as I can.